Jobs Simply

How can I make me happy ?

I never get big success.i never got more than 65% in my academic.i never get good salary.i am always being beaing with past negative taughts.iam fearing to face to adopt new things.i have been very lazy.i am frustrated by searching job.iam not even speak English well.i am not god communicator.i spent nearly INR.5LAKES for the education and other expenses.i was searching job nearly 1 year for my mba.i don’t like maketting job.naturally I was calm nature.now im somewhat good.iam killing the time very easily.i don’t know about time management. I want to earn 10lakes with in one year to compensate the loss of last 8 years..iam postposing my duties every day.now iam jobless.i could not understand my talents .i can know my weakness. Is it possible to change my life. what should I do to change my life style.any intelligent for me to advise me. done scold me because already im scolding myself. I need valuable suggestions to rectify my all mistakes and want to be rich person.

Public Comments

1. It's important to be educated and to not let being jobless get you down. I know that sounds easier said then done. The first suggestion I have to you is to get into counseling for (what sounds like) being depressed. On must have self-confidence to help you find a job. I don't know what type of job your looks for but, I know it's really hard to find a job. Can you start out small? Like get a job helping others or deliver new papers or work at MC Donald's. I know that may or may not sound bad to you but at least you will have an income. Are you on unemployment? Are you seeking public aid? Please take care of yourself first. I don't think it will be easy to become rich and be lazy at the same time. Good luck!
2. Dear Friend, You are a nice person. You are being hard on yourself. Sometimes we dont set our expectations right and end up being very upset with ourselves. Your anger towards yourself is not good. Be nice to yourself. Here are simple things which have helped me, and I am sure will help you as well 1. Dont set unrealistic expectations or goals (like Rs 10lak in a year). 2. Start from something small. Keep simple goals, non-monetary. Say - getting a job that will give me learning/money to start with 3. Forget about the past. Dont think about years and money you have spent already... it is sunk cost. You have to start thinking about future. 4. Find out what you are good at. Everyone is good at something. Lets say, you think you are not good at anything - then find out something you want to be good at and start working towards it. 5. Dont run behind being "Rich". No one is rich in this world. If you get 10 laks, you will want 20. Money is never enough. There will always be someone who will have more money than you. Dont make wealth your goal. When you work hard at something, you will eventually make money - that is for sure. Listen to all the people who have become big, they will tell you that they really worked hard for it - may that be AR Rahman or Mukesh Ambani, all of them are very very hardworking people. My friend, there is not substitute for hardwork. 6. If you are not good at English, take the language you are good at...and try and do something there. 7. Read books about people who succeeded and improve yourself. 8. Lastly, if you want, you should seek some professional help as well as it will help to talk to someone who can guide you. All the best and have a very good life ahead.