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Why do some cops & jobs supposed to help u, judge you and care more about busting u/negatives, than helping u?

Cops, rescue squad people, doctors, psychologists even....so many of them from my experience at least initially question you so intensely and are more interested in seeing if you're doing anything illegal, they judge you, they label you,and basically are more interested in their own agendas ad how they believe and see the world, and impose it on you, than helping you or anything else. First and foremost I'm going to adress cops,and then medicalfield,etc. Whenever I needed help from cops in the past, and this was yesterday, I was having a health problem crisis and was freaking out, and I called 911, and they showed up first. They kept looking through my car and searching for anything, items, pills, and were asking me all sorts of questions, were going back to their car to research the pills, and were more interested in the legal aspect, looking up my info.and things of that nature, than actually making sure I was okay or anything. I mean do these people have friends? Do they know what its like to be human, do they get l@id? I'm asking because they act like the most unlikeable people ever, so it's like who the heck would ever want to associate with them, off work? lol. Also then we add the medical industry, supposed to care about you and help you right? Yet they're more interested in having you sign paperwork and all of that technical stuff, and they all judge you too. they were laughing at me for being anxious, wanted to make sure i wasn't on any illegal drugs, and asked me where I lived, the exact location, all sorts of questions,..kept trying to almost accuse me of stuff like, do you smoke, do you drink, do you do this, do you do that...it's probably nothing, or its probably emotional, you probably messed up , you probably did this or that... I mean don't get me wrong..I know they're also just doing their job but they come across SO cold, cynical, judgemental, evil in a way, and like you really can't trust them. They make you more scared of THEM, than actually being there to help YOU. Why are they so indifferent towards YOUR needs? Oh and also in the past, they even gave me wrong advice, to benefit their friends. They'd tell me, oh hire my buddies to help your car or tow you, your people will take forever, or don't call AAA, call us, etc. They act self-interesed, push THEIR agenda over others. There's just so much corruption even within the fields supposed to protect you and care about you. WHY?

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1. There is so much going on these days, especially worth young kids. Cops...well there is just no excuse for the way they act. Don't get me wrong, I have run into some cool cops. Usually if there is nothing in your past, or on your record, they don't go any further, just check. Since they are cops, they HAD to kind of go through your car and stuff, just to eliminate any other possibilities. SAY, if you DID have something, then the cops would have alerted the hospital, so that they would know what to do when you got there. With doctors, yes, they have to know what you do, in order to treat you. They don't report to authorities of you do drugs, or have done them, they just need to know for their records. If you get a little mad at them, they will pipe down and say "Well, I'm sorry, but we need this information, its required fo all our patients." WHY? The cops are trying to get some brownie points by catching something. That's why they are such a&&h.....
2. cops will never ever help you, they'll scrutinize and make whatever effort to find a way to write tickets. They're there only to harm......NEVER to help.
3. You have it all wrong. The police is not there to help you, they are there to enforce laws. They also play the game of averages. If you called 911 because you are anxious or "racing heart" or whatever, have you ever thought of how many calls 911 gets that are similar and it was the result of some sort of drug? Happens all the time. So first thing they do is check for drugs. If you have drugs, or admit taking drugs, the police will arrest you. Enforce laws. The police is not there to help you. They like laws. They like lots of laws. They like how everything can be a potential crime. Likewise, the EMTs also were playing the same game of averages. Healthy people do not just drive and get anxious. They see that most are caused by mental health issues or drugs. A lot of people have panic attacks. A very small percentage of those call 911. A very large percentage of panic attack 911 calls are mental health related or drugs. By asking those questions, they can gage how you are mentally. Other questions can reveal drug or alcohol use. I am not saying that you have those issues, but that is what is seen most often. Your point about the car being towed or needing to be moved means to me that you actually had been transported to the hospital. You may need to follow up with your own doctor. If you are having real panic attacks, you may need help in controlling those. Most people probably do not need to be medicated, although they are. Its a whole lot easier to pop a pill than actually take responsibility for their actions. You seem like a pretty reasonable person. I hope you are doing okay, and if not, maybe you need some guidance to happiness. Sometimes it sucks and seems that things are overwhelming, but there's a beautiful world out there. Too bad its not everywhere.
4. I definitely know how you feel. When my husband, I, and even my neighbors called the police repeatedly over what was going on in our neighborhood, they ignored us all making us feel insignificant. When I asked two questions here I received many great responses which I thank all of those who answered in which has helped me tremendously. I do believe that many of these people have their own agendas to worry about. Unfortunately this goes on in many places where some of them do not receive any respect anymore. Even though there are some very good decent officers and others out there. I know everyone wishes what all of the answers for this are, but many of us do not. I wish you luck in the future!