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My friend’s director pressure for intercourse?

My friend (24yrs) working with a Car dealer Co. from last 3 yrs, her affair start with owner of co. (married-34 yrs) from last 2 yrs. now he pressurize for sexual relation. She can not leave this job due to high salary, She search for new job but she found very low salary.

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  1. What? In english.
  2. gotta do what you gotta do
  3. oh,
  4. She got herself into the mess by having an affair with him. She should have known better. She got herself into this mess and now she'll have to deal with it.
  5. If she started an affair with the owner weren't they already have sex? Looks like she is either going to have to keep looking for a new job or settle for the low salary. Isn't this a little late to have values and morals?
  6. OK..it sounds like your friend works for a car dealer and the owner is pressuring her for sex. She doesn't want to leave because of the high salary. Is that about right? Ummm....she can either write to the owner of the dealership and report her boss for sexual harassment, call the police and report him or she can suck it up and go for a lower paying job and still have her dignity. There is no salary or job that could keep me there if I was being sexually harassed by my boss.
  7. Sounds like she needs a new pimp! Ask her what's more important... Money or dignity and self respect? If your friend stays at this job, then obviously her dignity and self respect are for sale and this adulterer just bought it! Pretty sad! Now, be a better friend to her and get her out of there.
  8. Uh...... o, ok?
  9. Obviously the high salary is because of the affair. So, I consider this a business deal. Tip his wife about the affair. I think his wife deserves to know. Best if she can moves on. There is no happy ending to this. She is only buying time and hurting a family. She doesn't earn those extra money.
  10. Its not her mistake, only time must have lifted her to this situation. I know Money matters a lot, she cann't leave the job becoz, if she do so, he may black mail her or say something wrong about her. Better to stay calm, tell her to take a long leave, if its afforable, she can take a short tour (relatives home, out of station). If she's not married, tell her not to wait and get married as soon as possible. After marriage or coming from the tour, she can join somewhere else with less salary.....no probs... help her.. try to get her out soon, becoz this can ruin her life...
  11. Hi, Why at all an affair, affair leads to sexual relation. You have not stated the marital status of both. She must threaten the owner if he is married that she will tell his wife. Anyway it is better for her to find a new job and if unmarried a husband so that money is not a problem. sanjeev
  12. she can quit the company: shasank_salvi12@yahoo.com
  13. Its your "Friend's" Mistake in the first place. She should have known better than have an affair with a married man. She is served right now. I am quite sure she's very much ready to sleep with her"Director" if she hasn't already slept that is.
  14. oh, in this worse situation, let her think what is important for her.... If salary then go have sex with him If self respect then adjust with low salary. He is married, means still with his wife.......is he a womanizer????why does she wants such a person to be her Bf??? Brainwash her..... If she fall in this trap once, then beleive me she won't be having a real way to get out of this crap.
  15. if u think money is every thing the go ahead else take another job. bcoz their is nothing as good as a living in peace. peace of mind
  16. She is ready. she will not loose the job or loose that person because she agree for this
  17. offcourse having affair is the only main reason she has high salary, you mentioned owner and director are they same person or different? if different the owner is using her as sex slave i guess it's very common in india young girls having affair with thier boss for high salary...
  18. the man will surely dump ur friend after the act.so a strict NO! ask her to ask herself "salary or ethics"???
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